Women, sometimes we take too much. So much sometimes we are made out to be the bad guy, and we believe it. Why do we fall victim to the reversal of manipulation so often? Why is it that we get upset with ourselves from the constant mind fucking tactics?
I guess it's because we know better. It's the unhealed part of us that still wants approval that may scream out and claim it. That's all it is. Let your "no" be just that! Step out of the way while others make you seem horrible for placing boundaries on your emotions. Knowingly or unknowingly, we consent to the engagement of energy with others. Let's take the time to realize why we act the way we do. After all, it's best to know thyself.
It's not your job to make everyone happy, especially when their outer world is already miserable. You'll think you are the helping hand mean while you are the sinking ship! Learn boundaries and how to keep them. Boundaries are important! Everyone does not need to know your business. Learn to differentiate between those for you and those who just want to know your business. As you ascend you will detach vibrationally from others. This does not mean you have to dislike the person it just means your time together (purpose) has been served. Life is a balance between holding on and letting go. Don't hold space for the wrong things. We can not only be hoarders of things but people also. You will realize life is all about flow. You'll connect with different people to shift you into the next phase of your life.
This is just me thinking out loud!